How does one succeed in life?
12.06.2025 01:15
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Making more friends is a goal.
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
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Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Hangs out with loser friends.
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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
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Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
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Do not set goals—set systems.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
What I need from you?
Does not procrastinate.
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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Ask yourself:
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
That's it for today.
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Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.